… finish my sentences. I am 100% sure you do not know what I’m going to say. It makes you look pushy, or bored with the conversation, or just like an asshole. I understand that people do this to impress upon you that they have a superior intellect and that they are not only following-along with what you are saying, they already know everything about it.
… yell at me when I’m trying to help you. If you’ve asked for my assistance and I am giving it to you, don’t take your frustrations out on me when I can’t understand what you are asking for. I understand you are frustrated and angry with yourself and your situation, but the person helping you should never have to deal with your misdirected anger.
… wait in front of the train door when people are trying to get off. You will get on, but only if you let us make room for you by exiting the car.
I don’t want to be negative, but there are certain behaviors that make me question how people have gotten this far in their lives without being told that these behaviors are unacceptable or rude. I have already railed against self-important, blameless people, but it seems to be becoming the norm to be someone who is so outwardly self-centered, yet (ironically?) the exact opposite of self-aware. Perhaps I am blessed to have had the time, resources, and opportunities to examine my own life choices – my temperament, my faults – maybe most people do not have that luxury?
Know thyself not Know thy selfie.
Is it because no one has challenged them up to this point? Is that why they continue (or even start to develop) these behaviors? Why is it tolerated in today’s society? Are we so beaten-down by the daily news, or numb from being inundated with social feeds of people excelling (or, with schadenfreude: failing) in their lives?
i’d love to hear your thoughts.